The Lord's Prayer... As you never read it before.

While many theologies claim to offer a path to the divine, many represent either a harsh and demanding deity such as Allah, or a nebulous (undefinable) spirit such as the karmic wheel that controls our destiny. Our God is not such a being. He can be easily understood by His metaphors:

"Jerusalem, Jerusalem, you who kill the prophets and stone those sent to you, how often I have longed to gather your children together, as a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, and you were not willing.” - Matthew 23:37

What a beautiful and poetic image of a mother hen gathering her chicks this verse paints for us, even when the subject is the murder of God’s prophets, those sent as emissaries of the Almighty.  Hens are known to cover their chicks in this manner when storms threaten their young. She takes the brunt of the storm while protecting her precious brood, kept warm by her body, and safe from the weather. This is the kind of God I want to worship, not out of obligation or fear of retribution, but because I love Him. Although I can’t love Him in the unconditional way that He loves me, but I am willing to love Him as completely and without reservation as I am humanly capable.

How about you?

While you consider that question, here is food for thought… 

We have recited the Lord’s Prayer since we were children, but how often have we thought upon the words and their relational meaning?

Our Father…

He is our parent. OUR, that’s all of us. We have a trustworthy, present protector in God, and we are His children. We are all brothers and sisters, one God, one family, all of us. We are unified and identified as His through God, our Father. Amen!   

Who art in heaven

Jesus is leaving no doubt that the Kingdom of Heaven is not vacant while He resides in human form on earth. He isn’t a solitary being, only capable of being in one place at a time as we are. He is capable of manifestation in both multiple (infinite) forms and multiple (infinite) locations simultaneously.  Try doing that yourself. Jesus is also reminding us that heaven is a tangible place, a real place in which we will soon reside for all of eternity with Our Father. Amen.

Hallowed be Thy Name

Hallowed is a form of the word “holy”. It sounds like something sacred, right? Well, it means “set apart”. Not common, but special, very special, and uniquely of God. His name is set apart from all the other gods. He alone is God. You all know what God’s name is… Yahweh. I AM.  It is the complete form of the Hebrew word for a state of being. I AM at ALL times, IAM in ALL places, and I AM in ALL dimensions. There is no place or time where God is not fully present. Imagine that.

Amazing, isn’t it?

Thy Kingdom come

But wait, how could His kingdom come if He is already in ALL time, in ALL places, and ALL dimensions?

A kingdom has a king but it must also have subjects, and those subjects are us. We aren’t in the kingdom yet. But we will be. That’s a promise from God, and you can count on that. When He washes our sins away as Jesus washed his disciples’ feet, we will be worthy to be His subjects. We will enter the Kingdom making us co-rulers with Christ. He did all the work; we enjoy the benefits, just like the chicks under those mother hens’ wings.

It is a trustworthy statement: For if we died with Him, we will also live with Him; if we endure, we will also reign with Him; if we deny Him, He also will deny us;  - 2 Timothy 2:11. But we can’t deny Him, 'As surely as I live,' says the Lord, 'every knee will bow before me; every tongue will acknowledge God.' - Romans 14:11

This is the restoration of God’s original system. We will walk with God as Adam and Eve did before the fall. What a beautiful kingdom we will rule as crowned princes and princesses, although there is no gender in heaven, you get the idea.

Thy will be done

It’s no accident that things happen as they do. Everything belongs. We don’t understand how this could be since the world is not in line with what we imagine to be an all loving, all knowing, and all powerful Gods’ will, but it is. A perfect God has a perfect plan. Whatever made us think otherwise? Our human nature makes us second guess everything about God from His existence to His intentions. We forget that it was us who tried to derail the Plan. But this too, was part of the Plan. Mankind had to fall. We had to experience sin, its corrosive effects, and learn to make right choices. Otherwise, we would remain innocents, like infants. Would you put an infant in charge of a Kingdom? Neither would God. The sin that separates us from the Divine will be forgiven, expunged, and justified through Christ, not of our own doing. We can’t make it right, but an all loving, all knowing, and all powerful God can. Praise God. Praise His will. Praise His mercy.

On earth as it is in heaven

His will is not confined to the heavens; it is manifest here on earth too. He isn’t limited by location. It’s one God, One Creation, One will, One Plan. We win! We win! We win! We lose the sin!

Give us this day our daily bread

Do you think that sandwich for lunch came from your hard earned labor? How about that cup of coffee or the air you’re breathing? Not one atom was your creation. It was God’s Creation, all of it. The clothes you wear, the car you drive, the house you live in, these are all the products of God. “Made by the Almighty”, should be stamped on every product to remind us of His provision. We live on a tiny blue ball filled with abundant resources, while every other planet we have knowledge of is hostile, barren, and lifeless. Is that a coincidence? I don’t believe in coincidence, I believe in God and I thank Him every day for my daily bread. So should you.

Forgive us our trespasses (our sins)

That’s what we need, we want, we must have. All else is optional. Without forgiveness we are all screwed. We spend 80 years if we’re lucky on this planet and then what, nothing, non-existence? What’s the point of collecting houses, cars, bank accounts that we can never keep? There are no U-hauls on the back of a Hurst. We cheat, lie, steal, and murder for things we can never really own. It all goes away. Like playing Monopoly, do you think you own those Houses, those hotels, those properties, railroads, utilities? They all go back in the box when the game is over.  And the game is nearly over. Forgiveness is what it’s all about, that is the hard currency. It’s the only commodity with true intrinsic value. So, how can we earn it? We don’t, it’s given to us...

…As we forgive those who trespass against us (their sins)

There is a relationship here. Remember the parable of the wicked servant?

“Therefore, the kingdom of heaven is like a king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants. As he began the settlement, a man who owed him ten thousand bags of gold[b] was brought to him. Since he was not able to pay, the master ordered that he and his wife and his children and all that he had be sold to repay the debt.

 “At this the servant fell on his knees before him. ‘Be patient with me,’ he begged, ‘and I will pay back everything.’ The servant’s master took pity on him, canceled the debt and let him go.

 “But when that servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred silver coins. He grabbed him and began to choke him. ‘Pay back what you owe me!’ he demanded.

 “His fellow servant fell to his knees and begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay it back.’

 “But he refused. Instead, he went off and had the man thrown into prison until he could pay the debt. When the other servants saw what had happened, they were outraged and went and told their master everything that had happened.

 “Then the master called the servant in. ‘You wicked servant,’ he said, ‘I canceled all that debt of yours because you begged me to. Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you?’  In anger his master handed him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should pay back all he owed.

 “This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother or sister from your heart.” - Matthew 18:21-35

OK, now connect the dots.

“This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother or sister from your heart.” – Matthew 18:35

See the picture? It’s all there. It has been all along. But you never saw it until now. Now put the knowledge into application, for knowledge without application is useless.

And lead us not into temptation

Just to reiterate the point, there is a relationship here. The temptation to sin, like the fruit in the Garden, is a matter of choice. We have free will. We have choice. That’s up to us. We can choose good or evil at any point in our lives. God already knows what choices we will make. He doesn’t make them for us. His plan includes the choices we have already made. He exists in the future. ALL time. He looks backwards and forwards while we can only see now, and our choices of the past. He leaves the future unknown to us, so we can make our choices. He is already ahead of us, leading us. No matter what we choose, He is still ahead of us and still in the lead.

But deliver us from evil.

This one is a given. We can’t escape evil on our own. It’s part of our human nature. It is innate. Only God can deliver us from evil. Remember, you have free will, but so does God. You make your choices, and then God makes His. He gets to make the final call.

Is it not lawful for me to do what I wish with what is my own? Or is your eye envious because I am generous?' "So the last shall be first, and the first last." – Matthew 20:15-16

You make your decisions, and then God makes His. God was first, and we came last in Creation.  What a merciful God! Is it not lawful for me to do what I wish with what is my own? We are God's own. He is Generous! He will deliver us from evil. He is God and there is no other. I’ll let God have the last Word…

For thine is the Kingdom Forever and ever. Amen.

In the Beginning...

In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. He created all the creatures of the sea and all the birds of the air and all the creatures that move on the ground. He created a Garden on the earth, a special place unlike any other, a paradise. God also created man and woman in His own image, and He placed the man and the woman in the Garden. And God saw that it was good.

He did not place the man and the woman in a 3 bedroom rambler in the valley for $614,000 with 20% down and carrying the remaining $491,686 at 3.7% fix rate 30 year mortgage.

God could have, but He didn’t.

Then God said, "I give you every seed-bearing plant on the face of the whole earth and every tree that has fruit with seed in it. They will be yours for food. And to all the creatures of the sea and all the birds of the air and all the creatures that move on the ground, everything that has the breath of life in it, I give every green plant for food." And God saw it was very good.

He did not tell the man and woman that they must leave the Garden by dusk, or that "open" spaces would close.

He could have, but He didn’t.

Now the serpent was craftier than any of the animals the Lord God had made, and the serpent sure as hell did not want the man and woman enjoying all the bounty which God had created just for them. So, that crafty serpent formed a committee filled with slithering lawyers to issue an edict which read...

God is an absentee landlord and We, the duly and lawfully appointed committee, are now in charge. Furthermore, We have annexed the Garden and declared it to be a "Park", not a garden at all. Henceforth, the man and the woman shall not be allowed to reside in the Park.

God could have done any of these things, but He didn’t.

The serpents went on to include the following...

The man and the woman shall not engage in camping which means the use of Park land or other publicly owned property for living accommodation purposes including but not limited to any of the following:

1. Sleeping activities;
2. Making preparations to sleep;
3. Laying down of bedding for the purposes of sleeping;
4. Storing personal belongings;
5. Erecting any tent, tarpaulin, shelter, or other structure that would permit one to sleep overnight;
6. Knowingly causing a fire including campfires, cooking fires, bonfires or other open flames.

Anyone found disobeying this Law shall be punished by imprisonment in jail for a term of nothing more than one year, or by a fine in an amount of not more than $5,000, or by both.

God could have done all these things too, but He didn’t.

What did God do? He created everything; the stars, the planets, the animals, the Garden, the whole universe for what purpose? So that the man and the woman could understand the Nature of God. God's Nature, His personality, is revealed to us by all of Creation. The same Creation of which we, the human race, are the pinnacle. We are the crowning achievement of all God's Creation, made in His image. God had no need for planets, animals, or a Garden. All of Creation was a testament to the Nature of its Creator. A testimony of His provision, His love, and His intention.

There is no deception in the Nature of God. There are no ulterior motives in the Nature of the Creator. These things are the creation of serpents, and of man. We have forgotten that we are Created in the image of God to understand and embody the Nature of God. But we have  made poor choices, we have misunderstood God and embodied the nature of the serpent. We have scientifically proven that His provision is an mysterious accident, His love is a fiction of wishful thinking, and His intention is filled with hell fire and damnation, not for us because we have lived a good life, but for all those other people who deserve to burn. Like the homeless, and the addicts, and surely that homeless addict who urinated behind the garage.

That's the kind of God we understand, or would like to believe in. A God as inclined to forget our sins as we are, and as judgemental of the wrongs we have suffered at the hands of others. A personal pit-bull of a God. Trained to stay (at a comfortable distance), sit (idly by while we sin), heel (to our aid when we are in trouble), and attack on command (those other sinners that should burn).

He could do those things, but He doesn't.

The point is God doesn't see us as bad or good, that my dear friends, that is Santa Claus. He doesn't give us what we want, that is also Santa Claus.

He could do those things too, but He doesn't.

Instead, He sees us as His beloved children, who estranged Him in our infancy. Yet, He has provided an open door, a way to come to know Him, His nature, and His love. We need only to remember the greatest commandments.  Love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your mind, and all your soul. And the second is like the first, love others as yourself.

That's what you can do, have you?



P.S. -Thanks for all the anonymous help in writing this! 

Remedial Love

 
 
 
Readers Digest Condensed Version:

 

I was so enthralled with the concept of everything being done as an act of love that I neglected to cover one crucial aspect, what is love?

Love is done for the sole benefit of another with no expectation of reciprocation.

THE END

 

The Unabridged Version:

 

We say the word 30 or 40 times a day without ever considering the weight of our words. Just to demonstrate that I have put thought into this thing we call love, here is a little poem about some of the things I claimed to have loved today…

I love Lou Malnati's pizza and the White Sox.

I love Cincinnati, but Chicago rocks!

I love the Lord of the Rings, one thru five.

I love that Mick Jagger is still alive.

I love our happiness can come in a pill

And Scarlett Johansson I can't get my fill.

I love Mount Rushmore's four big heads.

I love Velveeta slapped on Wonder bread.

I love a commie, if he's good and dead.

I love a hotdog with pickles and mustard.

I love my girl, but I sure don't trust her.

I even love what the Indians did to Custer.

 

Now, you may not agree with me on a single one of these points, however these points of affection bring us no closer to understanding the essence of love than chewing bubble gum brings us to solving a geometry proof. You see, we have a very diluted and degraded definition of what this crazy little thing called love means.

Julia Cameron philosophized,

“Love is the substance of all life. Everything is connected in love, absolutely everything.”

While Hermann Hess forewarns us,

“Love isn't there to make us happy. I believe it exists to show us how much we can endure.”

Kate Bush reassures us in her angelic voice,

“There's someone who's loved you forever but you don't know it.”

But Steven Stills proposes a straight forward solution,

“Love the one your with.”

 

First, love is something that exists only in sentient (emotional) intelligent beings. The reason I say this is that love requires there be a choice. You must have the ability to make a conscience decision to love, to hate, or to be indifferent. An inanimate object, such as a kitchen table, is incapable of emotion and therefor bereft (without) of love. You may love your cat, but he or she cannot love you back. There is no conscious decision on the animal’s behalf. Sorry, I hate to break it to you, but (Insert kitties name here) doesn’t really love you. Not in the sense of love at the human level. I know that the PETA people will be enraged, but if they can prove me wrong, I’ll admit my error and love them just the same.  As I stated in the Readers Digest Condensed Version above, Love is done for the sole benefit of another with no expectation of reciprocation. Any conditional demands on love and it ceases to be love, it becomes a business transaction. Love can be given, but never demanded. Once demanded, love becomes obligation, duty, or responsibility, but it ceases to be love. 

The Apostle Paul wrote what is perhaps the best definition of love in the 13^th chapter of his letter to the Corinthians,

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.     

- 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

But wait a minute dude; didn’t you say there are no conditional demands on love? Then why does that sound like a list of conditions?

Well, it sounds like conditions, but these are attributes of love. They are parts of what love is, a description of what love looks like, rather than a laundry list of requirements.

Wow! That’s a lot of stuff we kind of associate with love, but there are limitations, implied conditions, and caveats that come with all that stuff, right? Can you imagine how Paul's Epistle to the Church at Corinth would read after passing through a present day legal department? I'm certain it would be both irreconcilable with Paul's descriptions and incomprehensible to anyone without an Ivy League interpreter. 

I know that seems rather cynical, sad, and even jaded, (or maybe it's just me) but that’s exactly how our contemporary definition of love has eroded. Starting around the beginning of the 20th century, Behaviorism became the craze of modern human psychology which removed any claim to the “exceptionalism" of human beings in Creation. We were just another species of animal, a cleaver but mischievous hairless ape, only slightly higher in position to the chimpanzee, and love just one of our curious primate behaviors. Love is an instinctive behavior driven primarily by natural selection and our odd but insatiable drive to pass on our chromosomes to some future generation. Some would call this a scientific breakthrough, I call it dismal. Now that love is a simple behavior, we can limit and direct this potent power through our ultimate authority, the state. The ethical aspects in love involve the moral appropriateness of loving, and the forms it should or should not take. The subject area raises such questions as:

1. Is it ethically acceptable to love an object, or to love oneself (self-esteem)?
2. Is love to oneself or to another a duty (a contract)? 
3. Should the ethically minded person aim to love all people equally?
4. Is partial love morally acceptable or permissible (that is, not right, but excusable)?
5. Should love only involve those with whom the giver can have a meaningful relationship?
6. Should love aim to transcend sexual desire or physical appearances?
7. Should notions of romantic, sexual love apply to same sex couples?

These and a hundred more come to mind once we relegate love to the list of animal behavior filtered through the lens of legalism. Somewhere as it passes through that filter we lose the meaning of love. We speak of love towards things, television shows, foods, fashions, and certainly our children and spouses. But is that love really about them, or what they do for us. The sense of pride we receive from their beauty or accomplishments. If your wife was hideously deformed by an auto accident or rendered incapable of caring for herself, would you still love her?

These are difficult questions in hypothetical circumstances; however in real world situations the collateral concerns become exponential. How will you afford the medical expenses? If you have children, what about childcare expenses? If she was a wage earner, how will you survive financially? I know these concerns are outside the ideal of love, but you may soon find when facing these challenges that love for your spouse becomes far more burdensome. This is where the litmus test of love happens, “… for the sole benefit of another with no expectation of reciprocation”.

Keep track of how many times you use the word “love” today without really meaning it. Would I really sacrifice my personal and financial well-being for The Lord of the Rings? No. The White Sox? Hardly. Scarlett Johansson? Well… I would definitely tell her I would, if that aided me in achieving my “love” intentions, but that’s not really love either.

At the end of the day cross off anything on your list that doesn’t fit the definition, “… for the sole benefit of another with no expectation of reciprocation”. You will discover how little we truly love, and at the same time discover what is really important in our lives that we have taken for granted.

 

 

 

A Personal Challenge

Breaking out of Powerlessness

I spoke with a young lady this evening who is dealing with a lot of stress and she is very frustrated with her situation. I've known her for a little while, and this was much the same many months ago. She's not a bad person by any means. She has a lot going for her, except for herself. That's the team member she's missing.  She has fine ideals and a sense of direction, but runs herself down dead ends by focusing on things beyond her control. What others are doing, what courts have determined, or anything or anyone that she has no control over.  I feel for her, and wish there were some magic wand I could wave and make everything as she wishes.  But I don't have one of those, none of us do.

So, I listen to her, and comiserate with her because that's what I can do.  It doesn't change anything, but maybe it makes her feel better that someone is listening, someone cares,  but as I said it doesn't change anything.  A couple hours, or days, weeks, months later I hear the same script. And I'll be dammed if I don't find myself listening and wishing for a magic wand again that I still don't have.  She's frustrated, I'm frustrated, and there's no reason to believe anything will change. How could it if you're focused on things that you cannot control? You render yourself impotent, a passive spectator of your own life, rather than the helmsman of your course.

As a child, you were hopefully fed, clothed, and cared for by loving parents. All the choices were made for you and you had no role in the decision making process. As a young adult, you took on a larger portion of this responsibility, and as a fully matured adult you bear the complete burden of responsibility. That responsibility is commensurate with control. In other words, the more authority one possesses the higher their level of responsibility.  By focusing on the actions or views of other people, we surrender control, avoid responsibility, and remain in the chains of powerlessness. 

"Be nicer than necessary to everyone you meet. Everyone is fighting some kind of battle." - Socrates

A Better World me Thinks

I spoke in my last post about those who spend too much time looking at their past have no future. I didn't mean this in the sense of forgetting the past because that would mean one could never learn from it. 

What I meant was don't become obsessed with it. What was cannot be changed, it simply is not an option. We have now and the future to work with and the more time you spend digging in the dirt of the past, the less working time you in the world to make a positive impact on something or someone. I don't expect you to change the world, but try to leave it a better place for having been in it. This applies to you non-Christian and even atheists, in your world view this life is all we have, ergo what would you have; a life of havoc and sorrows or a life of meaning.

We can build bridges or we can destroy them. We can be burdens or help carry them. It's a choice, and only you can make it. If there is anything that you have that bankers, lawyers, ex's, or "the system" can't take from you, it is this choice. Use it wisely. I know it sounds like I'm preaching, and I don't mean to come across like I have all the answers. I surely do not. But this is one thing of which I'm fairly certain. That we are born into this world without a choice, and we will as surely leave it without one, so what we have is now. That's all we have. What are you going to do with it?

Perhaps you never thought about life in such a way, and you lived in the grace of ignorance. Unlike the "law", philosophy doesn't hold you accountable for that which you are unaware. Today, you lost that immunity, you no longer have this excuse to hide behind. So,  you may blame me if something untoward were to happen, like you go out and do something you can be proud of. There are some very good people in my corner of the world. They are tireless in their service and I am proud to know them. With 7 billion and change people on planet earth, what could we accomplish if everyone gave one hour of there lives. just once in a lifetime. Do the math... It's roughly 800,000 years of service. Think about it. What lay at the end of this, a better world me thinks.

Back at last!

I have been working hard all summer.  (No, I was not in jail.) Now, with winter about to set in, I'll have much more time to write. I trust you all made it through these past summer months without too much difficulty.

But this is a homeless blog, every fricking day is challenging if not life threatening. Although, I have been very fortunate myself and am housed in a labor for housing arrangement with a couple local motels.

Additionally, this has afforded me the opportunity to operate a defacto homeless assistance program within my very limited means. I have a few donors who have provided me with the bulk of the donations, and while they prefer to remain anonymous, I remain grateful for their steady willingness to give.

I thank you all for your generosity and understanding that "community" is a verb.


Your world view may very significantly from my own, and I am not one who insists that you need to adopt mine. I have no monopoly on Truth, and I am as inclined to be wrong,  stubborn, and self absorbed as anyone else. Probably, more so than the average. In my opinion I am broken in a fundamental way, at the core, and moreover I cannot fix myself.  A broken thing cannot fix itself. It is not in its nature. It’s nature is to continue being broken. Many of us operate in this manner every single day of work, school, parenting, marriage, and every other abominable broken thing we do.

Human nature has been thus since Cain picked up a rock to reshape his brothers skull. Now,  whether you believe in that story of fratricide or you believe that the world is majestically balanced on the back of a great cosmic turtle, about the only thing that remains unchanged in all those years is us. Human nature has blessed, beaten, and propelled us from then until now.

There are many along the way who said that they could change it, harness it,  mold, master, or evolve it. A few met with limited success in some key areas, such as slavery and... um... I'm sure there are others, but to be honest we have yet to abolish slavery from the planet.

Sad.

My point is not to point out our human inadequacies, but rather to acknowledge them as part and parcel of the human condition. We have common ground here because we are born with them and we must suffer them all. Our prosperity is not shared. Some have much, while others have none.  Our loves and passions are not identical,  perhaps not even similar. Our sense of humor, our desire for drink, all points of divergence. However;  we are all broken in the same core of our being.  We can manage our brokenness to different degrees, and often use them to secure a temporary shifting, sinking sense of superiority over others, but that fades quickly under our own introspective examination. Ultimately, we are never really good.

This is the first, best reason I have for viewing the world from the perspective of Christianity.  Not because I am without sin, no far from it. If I were, I wouldn’t need a relationship with our Creator.  I wouldn't need much of anything, would I? It’s for the broken, deficient, bewildered being I am that I reach out to Christ, and my fellow man. Here is where I found my mission to help the homeless, the hungry, the misfits, the disenfranchised, the ignored, and unwelcome. It’s not that I love everyone, that would be being perfect, again.  It’s that by looking at myself I see that same brokenness in others, and thereby a mirror unto myself.  In  this way,  I quit trying to "fix myself", which is impossible.  Instead, I am doing what I can,  helping others in some small manner. A blanket,  a sweatshirt, a can of beef stew, or maybe just a few words scribbled in virtual digital to let you know that I care.

Whether you do or not.